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  From G-Mail Chats - Beautiful and Lovely Chats

  Wednesday, November 5, 2014 6:05 AM

  Christopher Alexis:

  Hello.

  Wednesday, November 5, 2014 10:00 PM

  [email protected]: Well, hello there, another beautiful - well - very handsome picture you sent me. They are all just so perfect. And, I would like to think that the man himself is also, 'perfect.' Hope I am correct in assuming that.

  Friday, November 7, 2014 12:28 PM

  [email protected]: Hi I see you have not checked G-mail since Wednesday morning, so I don't know if it is working. Please let me know when you do.

  November 8

  11/8, 10:46am Christopher Alexis: Hello, how are you doing? I was out of town, hope you are good? Let's chat soon please.

  11/8, 11:28am Christopher Alexis: Hello.

  11/8, 11:31am CAMILA: Well, I am happy to hear from you and that you are ok. Please, just let me know what time you are available - your time zone - and I will make myself available to speak with you.

  11/8, 11:40am CAMILA: Update: I messaged you on G-mail. Yahoo is having problems with your ID. Hope you had a wonderful trip.

  11/8, 11:55am Christopher Alexis: I don't understand but I bass in South Africa for now and I'm planning on relocating back to Germany. Have been here for 7 years now. Do you wish we communicate some time on phone?

  11/8, 11:56am CAMILA: At some point, we can use Skype. I am just now chatting for the first time ever with anyone I really don't know. When are you planning on leaving South Africa? Maybe you can divert and go to California for vacation.

  11/8, 12:12pm Christopher Alexis: Hahha, that is funny I don't know yet. I don't have skype but why don't you want to talk to me on the phone, I would love that, love to hear your lovely voice.

  11/8, 12:13pm CAMILA: Of course, I want to talk with you on the phone. No, it's not funny - you would love California.

  11/8, 12:14pm Christopher Alexis: Can we exchange phone numbers? Let’s get to know more about each other first.

  11/8, 12:15pm CAMILA: Honey, I am not ready to talk with you on the phone yet. Let's just chat here first and see what happens, ok?

  11/8, 12:15pm Christopher Alexis: I will share this with my kids.

  11/8, 12:16pm CAMILA: Absolutely, if you want to take them on vacation with you. They would love it here too. Of course, I don't know what the climate is in South Africa or Berlin. Who is taking care of your children?

  11/8, 12:17pm Christopher Alexis: Ok, that is not a problem but what are the things you want to know about me?

  11/8, 12:18pm CAMILA: Nothing in particular. How are you coping with your wife's death? How are the children coping? What field are you in and what company you work for? General things like those. Unless you choose to provide me with more personal info like dating, etc. By the way, do you enjoy online dating?

  11/8, 12:23pm Christopher Alexis: I'm not into online dating. Are you into that?

  11/8, 12:23pm CAMILA: No. I have never done anything like this before. I know it's not the best way if someone is serious about getting into a relationship. I enjoy more of a personal contact. (smiling.)

  11/8, 12:24pm Christopher Alexis: I understand but it could also be a good way to meet up with people.

  11/8, 12:25pm CAMILA: Sure it is. That's how we met.

  11/8, 12:25pm Christopher Alexis: It’s good being smiling while communicating but what can we do now?

  11/8, 12:25pm CAMILA: I don't understand. Well, please feel free to ask me anything you want to. I'd be happy to answer you. Christopher, are you are good looking as you are in your profile picture?

  11/8, 12:29pm Christopher Alexis: Good, so what personalities do you always respect? I do not look good on my pics.

  11/8, 12:29pm CAMILA: Yes, you absolutely do.

  11/8, 12:30pm Christopher Alexis: How about you?

  11/8, 12:30pm CAMILA: Some of my pictures are very beautiful.

  11/8, 12:31pm Christopher Alexis: Are you like your picture in person?

  11/8, 12:32pm CAMILA: What qualities in a man? Someone I can trust, believe in, respect, caring, compassionate, fun loving and much more. That shot of me was taken in June 2014, yes I look exactly like that.

  11/8, 12:33pm Christopher Alexis: Sounds great but do you have same personalities? I respect good women with good values, someone always kind and honest in all ways.

  11/8, 12:34pm CAMILA: You are right, I guess I was describing myself.

  11/8, 12:35pm Christopher Alexis: Good but do you have a good heart? Do you do good to people around you?

  11/8, 12:35pm CAMILA: I am known for my kindness, compassion, sensitivity and so forth.

  11/8, 12:35pm Christopher Alexis: In my life I don't want to get involve in women that do not have trust.

  That is good, if that truly describes you that means you won't have any issue meeting the rightful man. I can see that you always want to communicate with me, can I know what got you interested in me?

  11/8, 12:41pm CAMILA: Absolutely, I take great pride that my heart is full of goodness and kindness towards all. I have no problems meeting men - ever. I have had many men on social media wrote to say they wanted to chat or how beautiful my pic is. I never replied to any of them. Somehow, when you contacted me and said those same words, something was different this time. Something about your picture drew me to you. I have seen all the photos on your Facebook page. They are awesome. It's an unexplained, "Something," I felt.

  11/8, 12:48pm Christopher Alexis: Wow, oh! That sounds great and I have some women want to chat with me as well but I could not find any interest but you seems to be an interesting woman, which I would like to know more about.

  11/8, 12:49pm CAMILA: Well, I love life and I love people and enjoy decent, honest people. I have many friends and I spend time with them. We do simple things and enjoy simple things in life.

  11/8, 12:53pm Christopher Alexis: That is great and same here, but I am always alone with my kids and I have a good heart.

  11/8, 12:54pm CAMILA: Remember now, I did not seek you out, you sent a hook line and I replied and mentioned Dr. Phil. (Do you remember that?) Christopher, that's a wonderful quality to have. Life does not mean much without having a good, loving and pure heart.

  11/8, 12:55pm Christopher Alexis: Yes, but I'm not a big fan of Dr. Phil.

  11/8, 12:56pm CAMILA: Haha. So you know what I am referring to, right?

  11/8, 12:57pm Christopher Alexis: Yes, but it will be great extending that lol.

  (CAMILA’S COMMENTS: (THIS GUY HAD NO CLUE WHAT I WAS REFERRING TO. DON’T THINK HE KNOWS WHO DR. PHIL IS.)

  11/8, 12:57pm CAMILA: Do you not like Dr. Phil? Why not? I love him. He helps many people overcome their problems.

  11/8, 12:58pm Christopher Alexis: Yes, you are right.

  11/8, 12:58pm CAMILA: Online, you really don't know for sure who is at the other end of the line. You have to be careful these days when so many are deceptive.

  11/8, 12:59pm Christopher Alexis: So how do you feel being single some times? Do you have any man in your heart? Yes, but if you don't believe that then why communicating?

  (CAMILA’S COMMENTS: THIS GUY HAS NO CLUE WHAT MY MOTIVE IS.)

  11/8, 1:00pm CAMILA: Single life does not bother me. It's what you make out of it, what will bring you happiness is important. Married life can be great too.

  11/8, 1:01pm Christopher Alexis: Yes, you are right but it will be great having a good life partner.

  11/8, 1:02pm CAMILA: I have had many wonderful men who wanted to marry me over the years, but it was never the right time for me.

  11/8, 1:02pm Christopher Alexis: If I can find a good woman then I will be happy to get married again.

  11/8, 1:08pm Christopher Alexis: When do you think is the right time for you?

  11/8, 1:11pm CAMILA: Is there anyone in my heart right now? I don't know how to answer that question right now. I will answer you at a later time.

  11/8, 1:12pm Christopher Alexis: Like right now do you wish
to move on with the right man?

  11/8, 1:14pm CAMILA: Sure, you can get a good woman. They are far and few. Christopher, when the right one comes along - you know it. And, yes, when he comes - I could be ready.

  11/8, 1:18pm Christopher Alexis: Are you busy now?

  11/8, 1:19pm CAMILA: I can only imagine it must be lonely for you after losing your loved one.

  11/8, 1:19pm

  Christopher Alexis: Yes, you are right but will you believe that because I can see you have a lot of doubt in your heart. Have you been hurt before in the past?

  11/8, 1:32pm CAMILA: No, I have not been hurt.

  11/8, 1:50pm CAMILA: Thank you for chatting with me. That was not so bad! Can we continue later tonight or tomorrow, please? In the meantime, please see what you can do about connecting with Yahoo. I would prefer to chat on Messenger, ok.

  November 8

  11/8, 5:44pm Christopher Alexis: Ok, do you have a yahoo messenger yet?

  11/8, 6:25pm Christopher Alexis: Hello, what is your yahoo I'd? Let's chat soon.

  11/8, 6:48pm CAMILA: Christopher, I believe you are getting me mixed up with other women. I am sorry about that. I sent you my Yahoo ID several days ago. You e-mailed me, but Yahoo sent me a notice that they cannot confirm your identity so your name in not in my Messenger. At least not yet. You might want to try again. [email protected]. Thx.

  11/8, 6:49pm CAMILA: You might want to check your G-mail account also. I left you a little note there few days ago.

  11/8, 6:49pm Christopher Alexis: No, you sent me your Gmail account. Let me add you on yahoo messenger now.

  11/8, 6:50pm CAMILA: Thank you my dear.

  First ID was sent to you on Wednesday at 11:18.

  Nov 08 6:52 PM

  ALEXISCHRIS60: Hello.

  11/8, 6:52pm Christopher Alexis: Have added you on yahoo, accept please.

  11/8, 6:53pm CAMILA: Got it! Will reply now and see what happens, ok? You should get an email soon. In the meantime, how are you really doing, coping with your life?

  11/8, 6:56pm Christopher Alexis: Did you sign in your yahoo messenger?

  alexischris60 Nov 08 6:57 PM

  CAMILA: I believe it is right this time.

  11/8, 6:57pm CAMILA: Yes, I am in my messenger.

  11/8, 6:57pm Christopher Alexis: I'm doing great with my life just that it gets lonely some times.

  11/8, 6:58pm CAMILA: Yes, that is to be expected. We all do from time to time. Getting through it will make you a better, strong man.

  11/8, 6:58pm Christopher Alexis: On yahoo messenger.

  Nov 08 6:58 PM ALEXISCHRIS60: Yes, are you there?

  Nov 08 6:59 PM

  CAMILA: Let's continue chatting on Facebook for tonight. We will pick up Messenger at another time.

  Nov 08 6:59 PM

  CAMILA: If that will work for you.

  11/8, 7:00pm CAMILA: Now, regarding your two sons, are they close to their maternal grandparents?

  Nov 08 7:01 PM

  ALEXISCHRIS60: Why don't we just chat here?

  Nov 08 7:01 PM

  ALEXISCHRIS60: It’s more interesting here.

  Nov 08 7:02 PM

  CAMILA: Ok, anyone is good with me, makes no difference.

  Nov 08 7:03 PM

  CAMILA: I get very diverted on Facebook trying to reply to comments and read posts.

  Nov 08 7:04 PM

  CAMILA: If you don't mind, may I ask you what is your schedule after work until bedtime? Weird question, but often times I wondered.

  Nov 08 7:06 PM

  ALEXISCHRIS60: Cooking and cleaning after working on some document, and you?

  Nov 08 7:08 PM

  CAMILA: Yes, those chores are time consuming indeed.

  Nov 08 7:09 PM

  CAMILA: I work at home.

  Nov 08 7:09 PM

  CAMILA: Sometimes I am up late at nights, other times I don't work if I don’t feel like working.

  Nov 08 7:10 PM

  CAMILA: Do not feel like working right now. Glad I don't have a nine to five job.

  Nov 08 7:10 PM

  CAMILA: When do you get time to chill out, date, or have fun?

  Nov 08 7:12 PM

  CAMILA: Raising children in today's world is a full time job, very challenging, very difficult. But I am sure you are doing a great job.

  Nov 08 7:12 PM

  ALEXISCHRIS60: Oh, haven't done that for a long time. I don't date lately.

  Nov 08 7:12 PM

  ALEXISCHRIS60: I took my kids to movies some times.

  Nov 08 7:12 PM

  CAMILA: Oh! Poor you. That’s nice but please go out and have some real adult fun.

  Nov 08 7:15 PM

  CAMILA: Yahoo is now saying there is a problem handling my request. Don’t know what that is. Should this disconnect, please go back to Facebook or G-mail.

  Nov 08 7:16 PM

  CAMILA: When is wintertime there?

  Nov 08 7:16 PM

  ALEXISCHRIS60: It’s not going to disconnect, how long have you been using yahoo.

  Nov 08 7:16 PM

  ALEXISCHRIS60: Next year.

  Nov 08 7:17 PM

  CAMILA: I have yahoo e-mail for many, many years, also Messenger. I just never had any reason to use Instant Messenger.

  Nov 08 7:18 PM

  CAMILA: Now, Christopher, I will allow you to ask questions now. Is that ok?

  Nov 08 7:18 PM

  ALEXISCHRIS60: Oh, ok sorry for making you use it. So how do you live your life? Any recent dates?

  Nov 08 7:18 PM

  ALEXISCHRIS60: Ok.

  Nov 08 7:18 PM

  CAMILA: I was not interested in social media in any way until just recently. There are so many, I cannot keep up with them. Too time consuming.

  Nov 08 7:20 PM

  CAMILA: Oh, no, I am really enjoying chatting with you. It's fun. One can get many answers, right?

  Nov 08 7:21 PM

  CAMILA: No, no recent dates. Where I am right now - not the place to meet anyone I would be interested in.

  Nov 08 7:21 PM

  ALEXISCHRIS60: I'm enjoying chatting with you as well and that is why I am chatting with you right now at night.